Sunday, October 30, 2011

What A Weekend...

Where to begin?!

So Bishop Loverde, the Bishop of the Catholic Diocese of Arlington, is here in Banica for five days to visit. What a trooper! It is the 20th anniversary of Arlington working in Banica and he is here to help celebrate that special time with us. He is accompanied by 4 priests (3 of whom served here in the past) and the editor of our news papers in Virginia. It has been absolutely amazing having them here. On Saturday we drove out to Haiti/the mountain campos called the "Loma" where we have projects set up. We took two of the hard core Hilux trucks and they were pretty packed between all of us. We wanted the Bishop to see JUST how far we go out and how much work we still have to do. The first stop was El Corte, in El Corte a parish back in Northern Virginia has a project called "Operation Starfish" which works out in Haiti. We help them with El Corte because it is so close (about 40 minutes) away from Banica. The mountain towns hit the cloud line and you are pretty far up without electricity and sometimes without water. Operation Star Fish took this poor town with their mud huts and thatched roofs and re-built ALL of their homes with cinder-blocks and cement. Cement is very expensive here so there is no way that an average Dominican or Haitian in the frontier would be able to afford it. They are all brightly painted and beautiful, but more importantly, they are warmer and dryer and safer for the residents living there. Made me think of WorkCamp and how I cannot wait to get back to WorkCamp craziness this summer...maybe/hopefully as a youth minister! This was a particularly neat visit for me because Nativity is the home parish of a very loving family I know. This family has poured out their love for me over the past four years that they have known me and I cannot wait to see them this December. They have talked about Operation Star Fish in the past and it was beautiful to be able to see it with my own eyes. I took a picture of the Bish and I in front of the sign to send to them.

We headed back in the trucks and were on our away after a short visit. We continued up the mountain road known as International Highway (aka International Dirtroad with lots of bumps, landslides, and hairpin turns) and watched Haiti pass by on our left and the Dominican Republic on our right. What a sight! This was my third time driving up this mountain road and it brought back a lot of memories of Marymount ASB trips along this road. Good times! About two hours later we hit the town of Guayahayuco (Marymount - big blug church?!) and spent most of the day there. The church has a huge welcoming for the group with songs and skits and it was quite beautiful. It is just such a poor area! Want to know the decorations they used to decorated the church and town with? Tree branches! So creative! Some of the group vsited houses and families and I...I played baseball. Machismo is a huge problem here so it was nice to show a group of Dominican teenage boys that girls can hit home runs too...several! It was a lot of fun! By 3pm we were in the car again and headed up to a small town of Billiguin. What a drive! The road changed from dirt to straight up boulders - hence the special trucks we have here. One of the sadest things happened here. I was sitting down on a rock against a mud house and couple kids came over to play with my camera. A woman brought her baby over and the baby kept crying. I held the baby and asked the mother what was wrong with him. Aside from only being in a shirt (no pants or a diaper) she told me "it is his stomache" and I said "what is wrong with it?" and she said "nothing, he is just crying because he is hungry." So I found out that she did not have milk and that the baby had not eaten in days because she did not have any more money for the week. She is a single mom and the father is out of the picture. I searched in my bag and bough a bag of crackers which I broke up and started feeding the baby. I wanted to cry! The baby, thankfully, stopped crying and I gave the mom a little bit of money and told her to please buy something for the baby to eat. The need here is TOO sad to even talk about. It breaks my heart...it simple breaks my heart. Eventually, it was time to head back.

I was feeling fairly car sick by the point so I decided to switch with one of the Banica kids that came up to the mountains with us and I moved from the inside cab to the bed of the truck. Bad idea! We picked up a ton of people on the way who needed a "bola" or ride and it got real crammed real quick. I was bored to I just kept singing my songs (mostly country hehe...sang Dirt Road Anthem a lot lol) and watching the mountains go by.Along the road groups of Haitian children will run along side the trucks and yell "dame algo" which means "give me something." They do not even know what they need but they do know that they need something...anything. That is what the picture is of. Then it got dark very quickly and we were a little scared. The stars ere absolutely beautiful because there is no light pollution out here and at 8pm we finally got back to Banica. One of the priests turned to me and said "wow...when I first arrived on Friday I thought that Banica was rural and poor...but after that this feels like civilization" and it is true.

What an adventure!

Friday, October 28, 2011

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Wednesday, October 26, 2011

WIN

The cutest thing happened today :) I was walking back from school to the parish to have lunch and a little baby, who just turned 1, said "Lauraaaaaaaaa" hehe. That is right! He figured out how to say my name! Such a cutie!

Friday, October 21, 2011

Friday Funday

Today I came up with a new Friday plan. Friday's are my "days off" until one of my youth groups (Magdalenas) at 4pm. One thing that have been killing me with this schedule has been not being able to work out. So, I decided that Friday mornings are going to be my workout mornings. I woke up at 6:30am to beat the heat and headed out on a run. I think people thought I was crazy on the streets because no one really "goes for a run" around here. I ran from Banica to (almost) Pedro Santana and back. Pedro Santana is the next town down and it is a pretty good run! Of course I have to talk some of it! When I got back I went over to the field and did push ups and sit ups and things like that before stretching. Tomorrow morning I might wake up and do the same things before Teresitas at 8:30am. The goal - not put on weight with all of these rice and beans!

Also, thank you donors! Thank you to all of the wonderful people in the US who run toy drives and clothes drives and school supplies drives back in the US. We see the fruits of your hard work here! About a week ago a sea container of goods came in and after my run I sorted through all of them. I took boxes and organized everything into categories of binders, notebooks, paper, pencils, crayons, markers, pens, glue, etc. and it is SOOOO much better now. Let's just say thank organization is not a Dominican strong point! Now when you walk into the storage unit you can find everything easily :) yay! It was great timing too because we were completely out of construction paper and a few other goods at the Youth House and school. Woohoo!!!

Thursday, October 13, 2011

Preschool

Finger painting was a bad choice! So today I decided to let my preschool class experiment with painting..oh my, my, my the mess they made! I am sure some of their parents will be worried when they get home today with pain on their school uniforms but I used washable paint :) no worries. They are adorable. Two days our of the week I teach preschool classes in the colegio and the kids can be difficult but their overall cute factor just wins you over each time. I am learning a lot (like be sure to use washable paint). One of the saddest things to see here is the lack of resources. These kids all want to learn SO badly and all have a desire to go to university, even as young preschool students, but so many lack the tools to really do so. I pray that each of them is able to break through the cycle of poverty down here and really make something of their education. Pictures to follow!

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Mama

Nothing beats having a nice GOOD talk with your mom after a long couple of days :) it has been weeks since I have talked to my parents on the phone. Skype worked with us for about 30 minutes and it was wonderful! Sure, some of that was being kicked on and off of the internet, but it worked. I miss you mama and I love you so much :) thank you for always understanding me!

Thursday, October 6, 2011

All in a days work...

Today was the first day back in class after the Fiestas Patronales and it was SO great to be back. The kids were great as ever and the classes were small as ever but so much easier to manage. I (finally) made up a poster for prizes..because let;s be honest... bribing kids works! Each month I pick one girl and one boy from each of my three classes who are "mis estrellas" or "my stars" - meaning they behaved well and were great workers. In each classroom I have a bit white poster board with rules written on it in pretty colors surrounded by stars. At the bottom there is room to pin up "stars" which are made out of construction paper with little cut out crowns on them for my prince's and princess's. The girls and pink and the boys are blue. When they win they get their name written on a star and it gets put up on the poster board - huge deal! On top of that you win a prize which changes each month. I have already made the prizes bags for October, November, and December and they are cute. Candy, decorative pencils, fun erasers, little toys, stickers, crayon packs, etc. and the kids love them. The best part is that it works...

One example of it NOT working came along today hahaha and I thought I would share it here because it was so funny. I had a kindergarten boy who climbed up the steps to the second story overlook (kind of like a covered balcony). The little ones are not allowed up there for fear of them falling down the steps on their way down. The boy up there was Sariel who is so adorable and chunky and just an overall big kids. He is always eating candy at lunch time and waddles when he walks and sits on the smaller students...really! I asked him to come down and he refused to so I started to walk up the steps when I heard water falling down. I looked back and it was not a water bottle...no...he was standing there peeing from the second floor! It was horrible! It was so funny but I had to keep a straight face and let him know that is was wrong and put him in time out. I wanted to laugh SO badly because it was seriously a scene out of a movie...these kids! We then had to all sit down and talk about how it is dangerous to climb up the steps and how if they did, we would have to call the doctor to come give them a really big shot when they fell down and hurt themselves. No one else climbed up!

Now...listening to some good old country music while trying to figure out how to plan a retreat here and missing home :) I know I will see you all for Christmas though :) chin up!

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Haiti

Ever wonder where all of those donations go or those extra Superbowl shirts for the team that does not win? Well...Haiti is one place! For the past month or so I have noticed Haitian women walking around with huge bags on their heads haha they have great balance and posture! I wonder what they are filled with...so I finally asked. These women are selling clothes. Haiti gets a ton (yet somehow not enough...*caugh*corrupt government*caugh*) donations from foreign countries and NGO's and charities. These clothes often get passed out to people and these people then go and sell it. People in the DR have a little bit more money and can afford to buy things so they head across the river and sell them over here. I talked with out Peace Corps volunteer about it and she has the same answer. Even today, as we walked by all of the vendors selling different good for the Fiestas Patronales, we passed Haitian women with their goods sitting out in the sun as the yelled "barato" or "cheap" to the Dominican who walked by. These good even included packs of Hanes white socks...still in the package! It is all so odd! How can a country that does not have enough help seem to have too much? Looking at the structure of their government really just makes me sad! Just a thought!

We think we have it "bad" in the US sometimes but man-oh-man we have it great...we have it great...

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Happy Anniversary Maxwell :) thank you for sticking by me and making me stronger each day!

"God Gave Me You"

I’ve been a walking heartache
I’ve made a mess of me
The person that I’ve been lately
Ain’t who I wanna be

But you stay here right beside me
And watch as the storm blows through
And I need you

Cause God gave me you for the ups and downs
God gave me you for the days of doubt
And for when I think I lost my way
There are no words here left to say, it’s true
God gave me you
Gave me you

There’s more here than what we’re seeing
A divine conspiracy
That you, an angel lovely
Could somehow fall for me
You’ll always be love’s great martyr
And I’ll be the flattered fool
And I need you

God gave me you for the ups and downs
God gave me you for the days of doubt
And for when I think I lost my way
There are no words here left to say, it’s true
God gave me you

On my own I’m only
Half of what I could be
I can’t do without you
We are stitched together
And what love has tethered
I pray we never undo

Cause God gave me you for the ups and downs
God gave me you for the days of doubt
God gave me you for the ups and downs
God gave me you for the days of doubt
And for when I think I lost my way
There are no words here left to say, it’s true
God gave me you, gave me you.
He gave me you.